After the short but important ceremony, and a bit of lunch, we are looking forward to celebrating with friends at Milsoms Kesgrave Hall, Ipswich.

We have planned the day to be as relaxed as we can make it. We haven't organised a traditional sit-down meal where you end up sat opposite Uncle Denis who will bore you with tales of his rickshaw adventures in Sudbury. There will be no ageing cover band inciting previously-sober family members to shriek at you to join them for a 'boogie'. You don't have to feel obliged to embarrass yourself.

Things that you CAN do though. Be relaxed. Come and chat. There will be a football or two, cricket gear, hoola-hoops, and if you bring a blanket, you can sit with a spritzer and watch others falling over and injuring themselves.

We would LOVE friends to come along and join us for a beer. That's it. If you can make it we'd love to see you. If not, that's ok too. We should get there around 4 or 5.